VIDEO: Man Catches Girlfriend Cheating on Him with His BEST FRIEND! Priceless Reaction!

Thank God it was just a stupid prank and not the truth. Getting cheated on is horrible but getting cheated on by your girlfriend and your best friend makes the top of how horrible it is. Whether you like it or not people cheat.

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It could happen to you or a friend or a family member and it’s always good to be prepared. Not in the sense that you should always be suspicious and try to catch everyone cheating, but in the sense that if it does happen you know how to tackle the problem to get out of it stronger, not destroyed. Whether you decide to break up with the cheater or stay together is completely your decision.

According to bustle.com, a lot of people and even articles are talking about how heartbreaking it is if a partner cheats, and why you should never do it, and why no one should ever even think about it. But on a more practical tack, what should you do if you catch your partner cheating?

In a perfect world, no one would do such a thing, and we’d all be happy and healthy and full of love and light and miracles. But unfortunately people cheat all the time, and if it happens to you, you’re faced with an immediate decision: What can you do right now?

“Cheating and it’s consequences are one of the most devastating moments in a relationship,” relationship coach and psychic medium Melinda Carver tells Bustle. “It turns your whole world upside-down when you find out your partner is cheating, [and] you begin to look at everything in your relationship as a lie, and your self-esteem plummets.” But you don’t have to remain in that place of feeling like a victim.

Basically, it’s not a cut-and-dried situation: If someone cheats on you, and you’re committed to the relationship, you might not necessarily want to just get up and leave. And it might be a deeper and more intricate situation than that, anyway.

If you want to consider all of your options and think about what to do next, there are a number of possible things you can do if you catch your partner cheating on you. And keep in mind that you don’t have to make any serious decisions just yet — if you found out recently, you can give it some time and let things unfold before you make a concrete choice about what to do next.

“Stay calm and call a trusted friend to give you support,” psychologist, image consultant and dating expert Dr. Jennifer Rhodes tells Bustle. “Do not react impulsively.

“Don’t set a truth trap, trying to get him or her to confess,” relationship coach and therapist Anita Chlipala tells Bustle. “Be direct about what evidence you found of their cheating.”

“Cheating in a relationship requires an honest assessment of the relationship in order to figure out a next move,” New York–based relationship expert and author April Masini tells Bustle.

“Although I feel cheating can be rectified and strengthen a marriage, I would insist, and I mean insist, on six months of individual and couple therapy for both people,” zen psychotherapist and neuromarketing strategist Michele Paiva tells Bustle.